I am looking at the Please Don’t version of the kinklist and writing impressions here, and veering out on tangents.
Also I describe some things, so NSFW not that a plain list would not be, and I am wordy of course, and also don’t go into every single thing, but pick out a few things. Also I may caress sensitive topics, but I mean no offense, we all just have tastes for what we emotionally and physically respond to, that we can not help, so please if you are sensitive don’t read, and don’t take anything in here as being too serious or dictating things over others, as to me one of the most important things is freedom for everyone, without infringing freedom of others. Also fantasy is not reality but Fantasy > Reality for me…
Some things are also colored by the suffering and pain that is my real life, and things I have been through in my life.
I am going to write things that my many characters are in to, rather than link an image about me, but you may assume to some level that since it is on the list some of it comes from me, but not all things do. I do when I write for my character inhabit them, feel what they do, and all that, would I want to experience these things in real life? Most likely not all of them, but I do enjoy exploring them in stories, and sometimes I seek to understand something and explore it without enjoyment, just to understand why I feel and react a certain way, and to weaken the ability of bad things to disable me in tense real life situations. I also like to explore new things so this list will probably not stay current.
For bodies I enjoy almost all sizes and shapes, though I don’t enjoy unhealthy body states, so no bones with skin hanging off them or too obese, a little bit of belly is fine, a big ass and thighs hot. However I like males and females to be healthy.
Although I can still enjoy modded bodies (tattoos, piercings, breast implants, cut cocks etc) I prefer the natural body more, I also prefer pubic hair, but will enjoy it to be groomed, I prefer beards on men rather than shaven, some body hair too, rather than all bare, long hair on men’s and women’s hair rather than short or shaved, but all of those things can work on some people, in some stories, in some cases.
I can write, role play and read all sorts of mixes of sex partners, but some of them I enjoy more than others. I have a hard time feeling anything if it is just men on men, I can admire their love for each other, find them cute, but it won’t get me going.
I have been surprised by the huge interest in incest that I have seen going on around the world. My own thoughts on that is that it is alright for me and does not trigger disgust or worry if there is no breeding happening, when incestual breeding happens during I can’t get into it since I know that this is bad for the species, bad for the child, and we have enough trouble already. That does go into fantasy too for me sadly. This does mean however same sex pairings of closely related folks is fine, does not do a lot for me though.
I do have some genderbending things in several of my stories that are a whole lot better than what we currently have in the real world, and I do not mind that at all, in fact it can be fun to say use the magical rod of Genderbending on rapist (male or female) and then let them experience what they inflicted on their victim or victims. Also if we had a magical way to make completely reversible still fertile gender bending like with magic or technology like in some of my stories, in the real world, I think it should be required education once you hit 18 years old to spend one year as the opposite gender, to understand what that is like, to allow people to better get along and realize that males and females both have their own problems, strengths and weaknesses, and I think the world would be a whole more loving and understanding if that was done. I also enjoy the idea of a hermaphrodite that can both impregnate a woman and get impregnated by a man, I do not think it is good idea for her/him/them to impregnate themselves though. I also have a magical symbiotic creature that I think I came up with myself, that is called a cockite, a woman who allows it to enter her will have a temporary fully functional cock that she can use to impregnate another woman, but only with daughters, those who have been males and females thanks to genderbender rod or since they are shape changers say that a cockite cock feels every bit as identical and real as a true male cock, the creature must do this pairing to get nutrients it needs to survive, and also uses the womb of women to hatch and nourish its eggs sometimes, it is not sex for this creature to do this, just a symbiotic connection. I think it classifies as futa when the cockite is part of the woman. I thin I need to make the counter creature too at some point, that slides over the cock of a male and swallows his balls into it too, and gives him a pussy and womb, so he can mate with a male, of course then they can have a daughter or son, since the genetic material is there, not sure what to name that symbiotic creature though, Snatcher? Womber? Pussyite?
Clothing I prefer nude, but all sorts of clothing can be fun too, for most my characters and myself personally we love silk.
As for pairings, any are fine, but I need female to get going, I don’t need males to get going. I often do crazy orgies and gang bangs though, and it can be like a thousand men on one woman and that still is hot, go figure?
I am a lot more for voluntary, consensual but intense sex than I am for non consent things, I know this may be the wrong forum for that. It is the truth though. I hate permanent: snuff, maiming or other mutilation, if there is magic there that can cure those conditions then it can make interesting material for a twisted dark story, but I don’t gain any enjoyment from it, but sometimes that is not the feeling I am trying to evoke. I also do not understand scat, it is revolting, I could see using that in a story to evoke revulsion though, and other disgusting things.
I prefer sex that can result in pregnancy/breeding/impregnation (it is one of my main kinks) so condoms are a no for me in fantasy/porn. Smoking is a no for me as when I am around that in real life I have a very hard time breathing and can end up passing out from lungs failing to work right. Unintelligent partners is iffy, I don’t like when they are manipulated into sex, but also don’t mind if they are the ones who initiate and want it, but I prefer intelligent characters/partners as to me intelligence is hot. I love romance and all that, a few of these things that were listed are new to me, but I may want to explore them later in a story or role play.
Oral all of those are parts of my stories. Anal don’t generally do Enemas, and Gaping is not hot to me, but not off putting, I prefer an ass that closes up tight as if nothing happened after being fucked by enormous cocks for hours.
Chastity no, though having a character in a chastity device and being freed from it could be hot. The rest of the restrictive I think I have used at least once. Though I prefer pleasure over pain for characters, sometimes a dark story or intense story benefits from pain being part of it. Enduring that and growing stronger from it.
Toys, all of them I think I have used, sounding not very often though, and nothing that leaves permanent damage from it, and usually I do it and say it is causing intense pleasure when I do include it.
All the domination things can be hot or at least acceptable, though there is some discomfort for me with pretending to be someone’s daughter/son mommy/daddy, I don’t get it, but I get that some people want that, and I want them to be happy. Pet play can be a bit weird, but cute and playful too, so I do not mind that as much, even if it is also a bit strange.
The non consent things, in dark stories, intense stories, all of them can work, however to me I like the victim to end up either loving what is happening or to in surviving grow stronger and defeat their rapist. Anything else will just end up leaving me feeling sad and generally bad or even angry after. Though if the victim really did something more or equally evil as rape, then it can be justice and I can enjoy that perhaps a bit too much.
Taboo, can’t answer it entirely without feeling like it might break some rule, when everyone is legal it is fine, when there is desire from both sides it is fine, racism does not shock me and gives me nothing of interest, interracial can be aesthetically pleasing but often is too heavily weighed toward males of certain races having sex with females of certain races with barely none of the reverse and I don’t like that, sometimes rare races and eye and hair color risking vanishing if they don’t breed with each other makes me sad to think about.
General surrealism, all non fatal things are in my range of tolerated or even enjoyed things.
Non fatal vore, if it also involves pleasure for the victim, also reversible fatal may be tolerable, otherwise pass.
Fluids, no diapers, no scat, the rest yes, in particular my vampire characters enjoy some blood, but usually not covering everyone, but it is fun to help clean that off for them.
Degradation, I am not very good at name calling and verbal abuse, and having been bullied I don’t really like it either, the rest, yes can be fun/intense. I can also tolerate and attempt name calling and verbal abuse, but it rarely does anything good for me.
Touch and simulation yes to all, our entire bodies are full of nerve endings, and they can easily feel good and add to sex, sometimes I have one character getting kissed, licked, caressed and nibbled all over, usually the point of view character, making them be overwhelmed by good sensations all over.
Misc fetish, don’t get cuckold/queen but not against it, as it often includes breeding that is hot to me. Foreskin play is hot as there are so many nerve endings there, and it is fun to tickle a man there and watch him squirm especially if he can’t do anything to resist. Slob and shaving no thanks, the rest can be hot in certain role plays.
Cum, lots of it, all over, my female characters enjoy it, and my male characters are not squeamish about their own cum and will kiss the woman they just covered with it after, and if they had a gang bang with friends, are not against going into cum filled holes or kissing her after. Males eating out cum from a pussy is not so much interesting for me, but women doing it is hot, go figure.
BDSM, do not like branding or permanent damage or markings, chastity only if released, the rest are interesting in certain situations, though I am not all that into pain, especially if is just pain and no pleasure to go with for the pain to enhance, but I have done pain only things when stories needed it for something (see Star’s story).
Watersports / scat, humorous farts are fine, scat ick, vomit ick, diapers ick. Pee and the rest can have their place for me in stories and even to some of my characters be hot, like one of them I remember right now asked her lover to pee on her, since she had experienced that once involuntarily and it made her feel owned, she hated it in her past, but with her lover she wanted it, and it made her feel more securely his when he did it to her, after asking why she would even want that.
Pain/gore/torture/death, non permanent damage is fine, I still prefer pleasure over pain, but pain can have its place in a story, that is all I will say on it. Most of this belongs to horror not sex for me.
Meta, first person is more intense, first person with second person if you have one role play partner is even more intense. Third person is more useful and readable when you role play with several people, however you can do first person there too, and assign a you for second person, and refer to others by name, it is quite hard sometimes when you have multiple females or males in a scene, you can’t refer to them as he or she without confusion. I write very long posts most of the time, and my stories are also most of the time enormous. I can enjoy reading shorter stories, but usually they are just a single scene or two and end up so much less satisfying than if they were a longer story.
Medium: forum, irc, email, discord, chat, I prefer places where I can preserve the role play and enjoy it again later, making it a story that others can enjoy too is fun for me most of the time, but I will do private rps.
I prefer long scenes, marathons for the characters involved, really intense ones too that finally leave the characters utterly exhausted and spent.
I tend to reply fairly fast, and I prefer fast replies too, but I also prefer longer replies, as when people just go for one liners when I write huge posts it has to be some exceptional one liner to be fun for me to continue. For those who struggle, remember your character has several senses, they have thoughts and feelings, you can describe to me what is going on in their mind if nothing is showing on the surface too, I enjoy that, so even if you have sensory deprivation, a gag and restraints that make you barely able to move at all, you can still describe things, breathing, heart rate, do you squirm, feel tingles all over? do your toes and fingers move? muscles flex against your restraints? are you trembling or shaking? etc etc, there is always something to write, and even if your character goes completely dead fish, describe that, it adds weight to the role play.
All that said I am not the best writer or role player, others have their own interests and desires, and styles they like. From what I have seen it seems shorter stories are more popular, just like ‘shorts’ on youtube and tiktok, etc, but I am not about to cut the hundreds of shorter scenes from my long story and post those as separate things, usually there will be something that someone can fap to during each page of my story, probably not everyone, but someone can, and you are allowed to take breaks and then continue when the itch comes back 🙂
