Hello! So uh, I’ve been wondering where RC went, and I’m really glad I found out about this place!

I’m hoping most of you will remember me 🙂 I’m seeing many familiar names, so I’m sure you do lol

Well! Heh….I want to update you guys on my situation. I spoke at length on RC about my abusive husband and….thank you. Thank you all for helping me see what I wasn’t willing to acknowledge. Thank you all for listening, giving me support and cheering me on.

In July 2022, after saving up money behind my husbands’ back, I went to the courthouse and filed for divorce. He was gobsmacked. He thought I was joking when I said I wanted a divorce….he moved out of MY apartment swiftly, and the divorce became final this past January. It has been a messy, abusive separation. He came unglued for a long time after I filed. It has not been easy….it has not been pretty.

But I did it. I fucking did it.

I’m currently dating my magnificent boyfriend, Owner, Sir, Master— Rob. ❤️ To say I love him is an understatement. He is a bondage/cnc fan, and I proudly wear his collar. He has shown me nothing but love and respect.

Unfortunately, he lives in Pennsylvania while I live in Illinois. I will move in with him when the time is right, but for now we both take trips for visits. My next trip is in April, and we are very serious. (Also, his dad told me I’m the best girlfriend his son has ever had, so hey! Lol)

…..I’m glad I found this site, as a nagging question has been answered. RIP Ray. That hurt to read. I had been wondering if he passed…over the past few years, I’ve been emailing him randomly on the off chance he’d respond.

We talked a LOT in private, constantly emailing on a daily basis for quite some time. He was a huge source of support when it came to my marriage, and he only ever cheered me on. He wanted me to realize my self-worth….I have, Ray. I have. Thank you. I’ll miss you dearly. ❤️

I’m so glad I’ve found this place, aand I’m excited to catch up with you all 🙂

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