Panthers70

Smirkin

It pains me dearly to let you all know, that around 8:30pm eastern time Panthers… or Paul as some knew him, passed away.

Many from RC knew him and I was his Princess and best friend as could be. We would talk for hours daily over the last 4 years and the last two days or so he had fallen I’ll and hospital staff called me from his phone this evening after he gone to emergency this morning and informed me of his passing.

It’s sounds so strange to say you’ll miss someone you never met but he was my rock and confidant through so much over the years and oddly wished me early Happy Birthday yesterday as it’s on Tuesday. Almost like he knew on some way.

I just wanted to inform everyone. And this is easiest 💚🤧

My heart breaks but I know he is in better place.

darklord

Smirkin

Oh my. Sad news. I’m so glad you both had a connection. That does not always happen on these sites. Life, unfortunately, has an expiration date for us all. Cherish the good memories.

Shocker

Smirkin I’m very sorry to hear this, and my condolences to you a friend is a friend even if you know each other only in writing.

Nemo01

Smirkin Toutes mes condoléances it is always hard to loose a friend

KittyUmbrass

Smirkin

Oh no!

He was one of the great characters over on RC, and I recall how well you and he got on together. I’m so sorry for you loss, and all the virtual hugs to you if you want them (((((O)))))

He will be remembered always, and may those memories be a blessing to you particularly.

Smirkin

darklord Yes, I’m glad we had the connection we had. He was a blessing to me in so many ways and a guardian and I’m sure on someway he still will be. He was a good man.

leftwanting

Sorry to hear this, I remember him from way back RC and probably RD before that, I know how you must feel, I too have had connections with people from these sites in the past that have passed away, and there is a hole left where they used to be, I remember serious chats, fun chats, and fantasy sexy chats too, we do make connections with people or persona’s in cyber world, as you and I have, and sometimes here is the only place where we can find empathy or understanding of parts of ourselves that we can’t share in a real world. And that has been a great help to me over the years, I have learned so much.

Love and sympathy to you

Nadia XX

Smirkin

Nemo01 and tht is so very true ,no matter the case how💚

leftwanting beautifully said , thank you for the kind words 💚

DarkArchon1980

I’m so very sorry to hear that @Smirkin My most sincere condolences.

Smirkin

DarkArchon1980 thank you very much 🥺💚

KittyUmbrass you are right, I’m finding it difficult to adjust to a new routine of not talking to him on the phone. Sometimes we’d even sleep on the phone. Lol. He was and is a great man and I’ll always consider him my guardian. And yes I’ll take those hugs with interest please 🫂

Tinman

Sorry, Smirky. Always sucks losing people, especially the good ones.

Gigi

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your very good friend. I totally understand how you can have true long distance friends and loves whom you have never met, because there are times when you are sharing things that are oh so intimate you would never share them with an IRL person. You will be in my thoughts as you come to terms with your loss.

Smirkin

Gigi Thank you Gigi. I got to talk to his stepfather today and that helped alot and opened the door to healing. But you are right, its easier to build that bond especially over intimate details

obiwan

I don’t know either one of you, but as someone without any close friends, I am strangely affected by this. It is funny how some people have online connections and I can only envy that and share your sadness. My best to his family and friends. And you seem like a really good friend and I’m sure his memories will stay with you.