I must be a freak.
While perusing the internet for some entertainment last evening, my interest was pulled into a series of videos made by various ‘experts’ on the subject of…. The Female Orgasm.

Five or six different ‘experts’ all had similar educational type videos full of statements as if apparent facts about just how rare or difficult it is for a woman to reach orgasm during sex, particularly penetrative sex, otherwise known as fucking.

They had lots of statistics like 90% of women never reach orgasm from penetration of the penis.
30% of women have never had an orgasm at all, and other claims of how a large amount of women never find pleasure through masturbation, or even consider any kind of orgasm as something necessary .

Then they have tutorials with these ‘experts’ both male and female, telling the viewer how to make sex more enjoyable for the female, more facts about how long it takes to “warm up” a woman compared to a man.
At least 20 minutes to get her ready or interested is the norm, and that’s only if you follow the guidelines they are about to give you.
Such as careful stimulation of all erogenous zones, while asking her if she likes what you are doing, before eventually, very slowly working the tip of the erection into her hopefully now welcoming vagina, using the preferred lubricant where necessary, and then followed by this position or that position if the first one wasn’t working for her, always being gentle and taking things slowly, while asking for approval.

They talked about “G spot”, “A spot”, or stimulation of the uterus etc, and then even how to make your girl have a “Squirting orgasm” ( something I have never experienced: Nor any female friend I’ve ever talked to on the subject )
I must have spent a couple of hours watching these videos, that left me kind of sad in a way, to think that there maybe women who have never known orgasmic pleasures, or that hopefully one day I just might hose down the entire room with one of those elusive squirting things.

Sad to think of these couples going through rituals of asking if this is good for you or how about this,? is this working my dear? Should I now try it this or that? ….. I think I’d rather go have a cup of tea, For fuck sake just get on with it and see what happens, maybe talk about it afterwards.

But then maybe I am a freak, I must be.
I have woken myself up in the middle of the night having a powerful orgasm on more than one occasion.
I have woke on more than a few mornings, wet down there with no clue as to why.
I have given myself an orgasm at my desk by just squeezing thighs and things down there together repeatedly.
And it’s rare for me to go for a whole day without needing and having an orgasm, though I admit mostly self induced, and there have been days where as many as six weren’t enough.

I always have orgasms during penetrative sex and it’s never just once, whether it be a real flesh cock or latex/plastic one. They all work for me.
I agree with the statement that the ‘Experts’ all made about many kinds of female orgasms, I have had a range from little shudders ( Like the thigh squeezing at my desk ) to earth shattering eye rolling electric shock convulsions that left me shaking and shuddering for something like 20 seconds or more, and then there are a few occasions of unbelievable multiple orgasms that just don’t stop.
Various factors involved…, Maybe the time of the month, and for sure the state of mind I am in as to how horny I feel, but to be openly honest here, It doesn’t take a lot to start me off, my imagination invoking fantasies is pretty much a constant thing anytime of month.
And even at times, just a well chosen word or two can start me off.
So I must be a freak.

On the other extreme I have read about people being able to orgasm just on the demand of their partner.
And girls who have reached orgasm while suffering the infliction of pain, like being whipped etc.
It seems that it can be something trained to achieve for some girls.

Love to hear anybody’s thoughts or views on this subject.
Am I a freak ?